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Dulha Vivah sanskaar
The Hindu marriage is divided into a few parts.
Tilak
Tilak-yellow dot on forehead.
When the girls side comes to the boys side with tilak
then the boys' side gives the following things to the girls' side
1 x coconut oil
1 set of whole hardie
1 yellow clothing set for hardie putting on the girls side
1x powder hardie
1x dubha grass
Matkowra / Tilwaan
This ritual is necessary for both boys' side and girls' side
This is a kind of festival where they ask blessings from mother earth and pray to mother earth to bless the marriage,
This ritual usually happens 2 days before the wedding or adjusted.
Supplies
Pooja stuff
1x set of soparie bag (at Bharat Kings)
1x ready-made slide
1x sindhur
1x kapoor
1 x meter yellow cotton
1x gobhar
1x set of paan
1x kush grass
1 bunch of doebha grass
Objects
basket
pestle
dholak
flowerpot
soil
nickels 10x
Food products
1x 500 grams yellow peas
1x kilo of rice
1x coconut oil
1x 500 grams of ghee
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Lawa
This day symbolizes that the phoewas (sister(s) of father),
performing a ritual, a kind of bachelor party for the lucky bride or groom
By roasting the lawa rice/grain separately in both families, this rice is mixed on the day of the wedding, just like both
families come together.
Supplies
pooja stuff
1x dhaan (test in pan to see if it puffs properly)
1x yellow fabric
1x Sikh jaroe
1x baskite to be used for the lawa
1x baskit for sidha (rice and daal)
1x gas bomb and gas burner
1x wok (karai)
1x 500 grams of popcorn
1x oil
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Dwaar puja: take with Baraat
the groom and the bride's father perform a fire offering.
before they board the maro
Supplies
1x Ghee
1x Samagrie
1x Kapoor
1x Dhoop
3 meters yellow cotton (to make sidhur)
Bhiya guys
Wedding package for
Thursday and Friday pooja
Pooja stuff
1x Bharat Kings pooja package complete for Thursday pooja
1x Bharat Kings pooja package complete for Friday pooja
3x bhoerkie (small clay vase)
1x large clay kalsa
1x dhaan
1x slide large
10x slide small
1x beer (for nechoe, to decorate feet)
2x dhoop wood
1x samagri extra
2x match
2x 3 meters white cotton
1x set jar of hardi whole
1x ground hardie
1x sindhur extra
Objects
1x hawankund
1x harris
1x kangan (iron ring for the wrist with a penny in a handkerchief)
1 x maourie, a heart mala (for the mour)
1x impeller
1x baskit
1x sindur pot (decorated)
things that Bharkoe takes with him (brother of Dulha)
1x dhagpad a mala for the dulhin
1x sutra mala a Raksha bandan lux with stones
1x jewelry gift (your own choice)
This ceremony emphasizes that bharkoe and chotkie (dulhin) are brother and sister
Food products
1x honey
2 x liters of ghee
1x raisins
1x here
1x semolina
1x 500 grams of primal whole
1x kg of rice
2 fresh coconuts
Fresh leaves: (buy 3 days vtv)
2 x paan set
2 x aam set
2 x dubha grass
2 kush grass
2 sets of toes
1 x banana tree
If there is one
durga path
takes place
you must purchase these products separately, this is optional
1x set jaiver
1x kaphar
1x durga djandi set
1x tjaterpal djandi
1x hanuman djandi complete
9x bamboo stick 120cm
2x bamboo stick 150cm
1x 1 meter red cotton
1x set of fresh neem leaves
What do you give Daan/ gift to priest?
Daan is a gift that you give to the priest and also his helper (Narrow)
Everyone has their own insight into what he or she can provide.
We advise you to get to know your pandite well what his needs are so that you know exactly what he finds appropriate and accepts.
These are the usual products that you can give daan, of course you can adjust this:
On a Copper Thali:
On a copper Thali: money (of your choice)
1x kilo of rice,
1x 1 liter oil,
1x 500gr yellow peas, or raw peas,
1x white or brown beans
1x masala
1x yellow besan or primal besan
1x clothing in the shape of a dhoti
1x beautiful scarf
1x booklet Gita or Ramayan
1x 1.25 euro dakshina
1x envelope with money
(indicative amount of an average hourly wage of a specialized professional
between 25 and 50 per hour without travel costs)
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